What does a brilliant and award winning science fiction book published in 1977 have in common with this channel and my sharing about love, loss, and grief. I guess I should say listen and find out... nah I'll share a bit. With this excellent book is a mention of something that caught my eye. It was the idea of feel vs know. I wanted to know more. Before I did that whole search thing for it I finished the book and there was more about it specific to loss and grief and emotions.